I found one of my old journals from 2012-2013. I turned to a page with “My Fears” written across the top.

“I think that what's really important about growing up as the ‘Token Black Girl’ is I really did have a lot of close relationships with white people where I really did believe they loved me. I really did trust them.”

Nothing about my decision to leave that job was easy. I loved that job, it was all I ever thought I wanted.

Some major transits are happening this year with Saturn, Pluto, Jupiter, and a whole new set of eclipses.

Undoubtedly, the most impactful thing about this year was my time living abroad.

I enjoy buying gifts for everyone in my family, especially my parents, because they're less likely to treat themselves in the way that I do.

Most of us know eclipses as cool astronomical events, but they are also very significant in astrology.

Even though she felt scared of literally everything, the day would come when she wouldn't be so scared of the things she once loved—and she would actually become braver than she could have ever imagined.

I did not expect to meet someone so quickly after arriving in London this summer.

Of course, it's always fun to incorporate a few trendy pieces—but at the end of the day, I'd much rather have a wardrobe that makes me feel like myself.

“At the end of the day we have a purpose and the purpose is going to happen, but it all depends on the story that we make.”

I always like to say it's good to take the training wheels off and make sure you can still find your balance in the real world.

“I don't have panic attacks. I don't have shaky hands. I don't sleep for 25 hours. All these things that we say is anxiety. Then I learned as I got older that I have high-functioning anxiety.”

I've actually been toying with the idea of moving to London since 2019.

I used to call myself a “late bloomer” but that’s actually not a title I really identify with. That label implies that we have all agreed to operate on the same schedule in life. I certainly made no such agreement.

My therapist bestie answers your burning questions.

“My partner's best friend sexually assaulted me—and I didn't say anything for four years. When I finally spoke up about it, that's when the victim-blaming and shaming started happening.”

My favorite reads to help you sit with uncertainty and change, understand the complexity of female desire, or learn the basic principles for a more spiritual life.